You don’t need better boundaries. You need a better framework.

Editor’s note, June 21, 8 am ET: We’re bringing you some of our best-loved Your Mileage May Vary columns while Sigal Samuel is on parental leave.

The one below was originally published in November 2025.

This unconventional advice column offers you a unique framework for thinking through moral dilemmas.

It’s based on value pluralism: the idea that each […]